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Interesting comment Sareko about age difference. I would love to share on this topic.
It works a bit differently for women than it does for men when choosing a partner with a vast difference in age. Of course you know I can see even more by looking at both their charts! They can determine whether your are very compatible with someone romantically, how will the relationship flow, what are the lessons involved, challenges, sexual and intimacy relations and so much more. But briefly for the examples you listed which I found fascinating. Demi Moore and Astron Kutcher have a 16 year difference in age. Women in general will attract younger men which are called: May, Decemeber relationships, for these reasons true intamacy and bonding, emotional compatiblity, nurturing on both ends, and very real and important factor sexual compatiblity. Women reach their sexual peaks at around the age of 40, a younger man can keep up with a 40 year old woman because he can match her sexual needs and frequency needs. Men reach thier sexual peak at 18 and from there go "down hill" in their ability to perform to a 40 year old woman's standards and needs. The creator/God/Universe/Goddess what ever you choose to call the creative power, does have a sense of humor huh?! So, Demi is gaining a man who has a unique abiltity to tap into that which she needs, he is youthful and fun living, quick witted and intelligent.He is also stable and conservative, someone she can depend on. Demi is very much into partnering with a man of that nature. Tropical astrology will tell you she is a Scorpio, she is in fact a Libra, a triple Libra with many placements in the 8th house which scorpio rules. This means that her planets in that house in Libra will operate under an scorpio energy and feel very scorpionic. Aston in Tropical astrology is seen as an Aquarius, he is in fact a Capricorn.

Men and younger partner choices, tends to be because of a lack of maturation on the males part, having an inablity to truly tap into intimacy with partner (remember that intimacy has nothing to do with sex), needing to be and feel that they are in control and exercising their power, and most of all afraid to age, having a younger woman around falsly reminds him of his virlity in his youth, the peak of his attractiveneess, so most men, not all will have a much younger woman on his arm and in his bed because of this, basically a man's and in general attraction can be due what is commonly coined as a "middle age crisis." Unfortuantly most men will stay in this phase of life because of the lack of an understanding of what it truly means to be a man and much in part due to socialization process and media liese and hype, but that is another story. Sonny and Cher is here in this one. Cher has often before the death of Sonny stated that he was very condencending and controlling throughout their marriage and career, he was also abusive. He also had the short man's syndrome, he would actually control how, when and where they had sex. I won't go off into their charts cause its a bit more complicated than the first two.

So what happens is if a man has more to offer than just his virility (think of phermones, hormones) and he knows without the aid of now popular drugs and that means the illigal ones as well (which have nothing to do with energy levels) he can give her sexual unions from time to time, he can give her a lifestyle! Trinkets, money, social contacts, he can help her with her career, he can be in fact more friend than lover, offering her a range of interactions because she is in fact getting the short end of the stick in bed! He can also introduce her to group sex with younger men, women, etc just because he is no longer in a position in his mind and energy to offer her what she needs in a sexual romping situation. Now realisitcally detaching from emotions here, does and can this shine a brighter light on the world of celebrity??? If most men would take these positive qualites listed and turn them around to women thier own ages, the world in short may have a greater success in relating and intamcy but unfortuantly we are not socialized into that way of being or thinking.

As far as Gary, how does he fit into all of this? In all fairness, he has beautiful placements in his chart for a loving, intimate, nurturing relationship with a woman who fulfills his needs to be home bound most of the time, he doesn't need mothering, he does need nurturing, he is very affectionate by nature and needs that physcial contact from a woman, she should love children and wish to have children as Scorpio is about procreation and Cancer (which is his marriage sign) is about biology and taking care of home. She has to be secretive as in not sharing all of their intimate details to others and very protective of their clan that they create. Of course she would have to be supportive,intelligent, emotionally sound and stable, mature and willing to have some fun. Cancer can be a bit complicated within its psychological make up but its nice none the less.

Ladies, I will let you decide for your selves whether or not you see any of those attributes in his with his women of choice INSTEAD of me just saying it, I think it can be fun when of course done with respect and objectivity. The question could be, is Gary pulling in this kind of energy with the women that he has put into the mainstream to be seen?

My wish is for greater clarity, please keep this respectful, fun and light. I don't wish to cause hurt as I am basically giving analysis on someone, and you never know who reads this! The goal is to heal and to share information with a different perspective.

Many blessings to all
Moon

Greetings!

Heba many of the points you are bringing up I stated are the Venus in Sagittairus qualities.... so yes when you look at Gary you will feel that way. His Venus is situated in his 1st house in his chart, and that is for all the world to see. Venus is about beauty in general. So, having it in the 1st house for anyone typically signifies great beauty that others will find appealing. Remember Venus supports modeling, anything astheic.

As far as going after what you WANT vs. what one NEEDS. Having someone by your side is Venus but its only temporary. Venus is for the fun of it, the party, and is superficical. Gary will draw many,many women to him which support this energy. This planet never supports long term committments. That is what I was sharing, not that Gary and his girl friend wouldn't find happiness, it may be temporary and it may be permanent, I would have to have her information from an astrological stand point to be sure. This does not make it bad or good, it just is. I have already stated before that he is having FUN. That is what is needed and that is what he attracts in his list of WANTS. At best, loving someone when you are with them is excellent but when they are not around then what? You love someone else? That would be Venus. For the moment as long as it can sustain passion and the intial phases of loves embrace and intoxication. After that cools down, then what? You are speaking without knowing it Heba is all of the romance of Venus. Which supports astrological interpretation of the planets energy.

MiMi~One more time, my chart is correct because I do a different kind of astrological interpretation. It is sidereal not tropical, sidereal is the most accurate. He is a triple Sagittarius in Tropical which the time line is off and a triple Scorpio in Sidereal which is more accurate. If you do not study different systems of astrological interpretation Mimi you wouldn't know what I am talking about and frankly it is too deep to discuss here. Mimi, do you have an astrology program? Or do you do your charts by hand? I have studied astrology for 10 years, graduated at the top of my class, have been doing interpretations for 5 years or so. I did a paper on Gary in as an astrological celebrity study and got the opportunity to speak at at my local astrolgy school. It was on the psychological analysis of a chart. I have clients that swear by my gifts with tremendous accuracy and I have my own spiritual consulting business. Other than working with chidlren, this is my life's purpose. I would never put anything out about any one, especially on the www that is not be accurate or truth. That is something that I am passionate about. I have a deep responsibilty to bring awareness to others and I don't toy with information. I understand your confusion about the translation, it takes those who are so used to tropical astrology to switch over to the correct system, I know my professors told me that they could't do it either, and that I have a special knack for doing just that. I am a stickler for truth and am open to exploring what is just, right and accurate vs. the easiest way of doing something. I hate wriritng things like this, I am not attacking you in any way as my words can seem very direct at times, I just wish to bring understanding that your not dealing with a B.S`er... I am for real. If you would like for me to explain more about sidereal vs.Tropical I would love to talk to you about it off site as to not over load the e-group with this information. I'm available for you.

Also, for clarification, I am not judging nor speaking on whether or not Gary loves the woman he is currently with. If he does fine, if not then that is fine too! I hold no investement in that situation, my goal is to share a different perspective using astrological interpretation and other techniques. Remaining objective is my training, removing the ego as much as possible and looking at what is instead of what I wish to see is pertainant to me giving accruacy in readings. Unforttunalty, because so many women are sexually, visually attracted to Gary, I knew that my sharing this kind of information was going to be a bit tricky at times, because many will have invested in his image, his energy, his appeal, his sexual magnetisim. But by removing all of that, it can bring tremendous focus to who and what he is as a HUMAN BEING. Not someone that on a psychological level supports an inner need and fantasy. Which then makes its personal instead of impersonal.

Lastly,actually he is the marrying kind, but due to him focusing on his wants (Venus) vs. his needs, he will not bring about this quality to the public at large. When Venus is in the 1st house as in any planet and sign it gives a much stronger display, psychologically and physically than other planets and signs in a chart and yet again this also depends on other factors. So, that is why he seems so much more Sagittarius to the world, than his innate Scorpio which he tries to hide but comes out in other ways. Remember the attributes I stated about his "ideal" wife's character? If that were present, with his wants realistically looked at and worked through, he would marry in a heart beat, but that goes true for anyone, not just Gary.

Many blessings to you both!

Moon